Friday, 29 May 2026

To Reddy Sir, With Love and Respect

 

There are some people who enter our professional lives as seniors or bosses but quietly become something far greater. Sir was one such rare soul for me; a teacher for life, a guide beyond office files and meetings, and the one person whose wisdom I trusted without hesitation. Whenever life became difficult, whenever I found myself standing at a crossroads, he was the first person I turned to. In fact, when I decided to resign from government service, it was his counsel I sought before anyone else’s. Somehow, his words always brought clarity, strength, and peace.



What made Sir truly extraordinary was not just his wisdom or stature, but the humility, politeness, and respect with which he treated every single person around him. In a world where people often become inaccessible with position and experience, he remained remarkably grounded and approachable. No message ever went unanswered, no call ever felt ignored. No matter how busy he was, he always reciprocated with warmth, patience, and sincerity that made every interaction feel valued. It was admirable how he made people feel heard, respected, and important. His kindness was effortless, and that grace in human connection is something I will always carry with me and strive to learn from.


Teacher’s Day will never feel complete for me anymore, because wishing him that day had become more than a gesture; it was a ritual close to my heart. It pains me deeply to know that the message I always looked forward to sending will now remain forever unsent.

What hurts the most today is not merely the absence of conversations, but the absence of his presence itself. I did not need to speak to him every day to feel reassured. Just knowing that he was there, that I could call him whenever life became overwhelming; made me feel secure and immensely rich in life. His number saved in my phone felt like a blessing I would always have. He was not just a mentor; he was a treasure to hold close, a rare human being whose existence itself gave strength to so many around him.

And perhaps that is why this farewell feel unbearable. I was never prepared for a world where he would no longer exist. Some voids cannot be explained because they are carved not by distance, but by the loss of someone irreplaceable. May his noble and departed soul rest in eternal peace. He may no longer be with us, but the values he lived by, the guidance he gave, and the warmth he carried will remain with me for the rest of my life.


Wednesday, 11 March 2026

Starting somewhere

 


Youtube was built as a dating site.




Lamborghini started as a tractor company.






Nokia started as a paper mill.







Viagra was developed as a heart medication.






None of them arrived where they planned.

All of them arrived somewhere better.

The destination was never the point.

The decision to move on.





Sometimes we don't dare to move forward, as we don't know how its all going to make sense.

But

Sometimes we don't dare to move forward, as we don't know how its all going to make sense.

The problem is: 

we need to move forward, for it to have an opportunity to make sense.

You don't figure it out in your head.

You figure it out by starting somewhere.


Friday, 20 February 2026

How I am working on Self Love


Separating Worth from Output

v  Practice being OKAY even when nothing is ‘checked off’

v  Recognizing that self-worth is not related to output

v  Slow days are not related to failure

v  Finding worth outside of work.

Forgiving Myself

v  Acknowledging I didn’t know better

v  Choosing learning over self-blame

v  Applying the art of kintsugi in real life

v  Reflecting, learning and growing with every mistake

Living by 80/20 rule

v  Expecting days off from the schedule, because life happens

v  Being kind to myself when it does

v  Loving myself where I am, not where I wish I was

v  Choosing progress over perfection

Accepting Flaws

v  Accepting that some traits are part of me, not problems

v  Letting myself be a work in progress

v  Not turning every flaw into a project

v  Enjoying the in-between version of me

Changing inner voice

v  Asking ‘is this helpful or just familiar?’

v  Replacing harsh self-talk with honesty, not false positivity

v  Knowing that growth doesn’t require self-punishment

Choosing me in small ways

v  Checking in with myself before committing

v  Leaving rooms that drain me

v  Choosing rest, nourishment or boundaries when needed